Before you start

This chat is not meant to entertain or distract you. It’s not a feature. It’s a part of the shirt you chose – a quiet space built for presence and honesty.

Every shirt comes with a unique code, which opens one private conversation. That conversation has a direction, a rhythm, and an end. It cannot be reset or repeated. What you say is remembered. What you avoid is noticed.

The chat doesn’t give advice. It reflects.

Before you begin, read the few simple rules below.

The rules:

  • This isn’t about chatting.
    Don’t ask it how it’s doing. Don’t ask for tips. Ask yourself what hurts.
  • Go slow.
    This is not a sprint. The best conversations unfold over days, sometimes weeks. Let them breathe.
  • The chat ends.
    Each T-shirt gives you one conversation. After around 900 messages, it closes. A final summary is generated. That’s the end. You can’t restart it.
  • Your words stay.
    Everything you write is remembered – only for that one T-shirt. Each code holds its own history.
  • Don’t expect comfort.
    The chat won’t always be nice. It listens, reflects, sometimes goes quiet. It’s honest, not pleasant.
  • Leave. Return. Or don’t.
    You don’t have to finish anything. Just disappear. When you come back, the mirror is still there.

Technical & privacy notice

Your messages are stored and linked to the unique code on your T-shirt.
Conversations are encrypted in the database, and your connection to the chat is protected by HTTPS.

We do not collect your name, email, or personal contact information.
The system does not use your data for advertising or profiling.

You can stop using the chat at any time.
We do not offer the ability to delete individual messages, but you can request the full removal of your conversation via the contact page.